To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by doing so you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
So-Called Gay Marriage Legislation
Here is what I wrote to the Minneapolis StarTribune:
One of the secondary outcomes of marriage legislation like that recently passed in Minnesota is that lexicographers will search for new vocabulary to distinguish between different kinds of marriages.
Pastor Sam Crabtree is Bethlehem's Executive Pastor and Lead Pastor for Life Training.
Standing Strong Together in Christ
And it is God who establishes us with you in Christ, and has anointed us, and who has also put his seal on us and given us his Spirit in our hearts as a guarantee.—2 Corinthians 1:21–22
Introduction
Thorough-Going Trinitarians
Marriage Has Not Worked Out
According to Amber & David Lapp,* 43% of high-school educated adults say that marriage has not worked out for most people they know.
Though I can imagine what they mean by “not worked out,” I wonder how many high school graduates know what marriage is for. Understanding the purpose of marriage profoundly affects one’s assessment of whether a marriage has “worked out.”
Pastor Sam Crabtree is Bethlehem's Executive Pastor and Lead Pastor for Life Training.
Which Parent Do I Not Need?
“Which parent do I not need, my mother or my father?” one of my 11-year-old heroes, Grace Evans, asked legislators on the House Civil Law committee during a hearing on HR1054, a bill to legalize so-called “gay marriage.” She respectfully waited for a response, and not getting any, she repeated her question. Again, no answer.
Her question made the front page of the St. Paul Pioneer Press and other news outlets.
Some observations:
Pastor Sam Crabtree is Bethlehem's Executive Pastor and Lead Pastor for Life Training.
Jesus As Bridegroom Is Pictured in Marriage
It is a wife that makes a man a husband. Jesus is not betrothed to a groom. So-called "gay marriage" legislation misses the point of marriage.
The MN House has scheduled a vote on the same-sex "marriage" bill this Thursday, May 9. This implies that the House leadership thinks they have the votes to pass so-called "gay marriage" legislation.
Pastor Sam Crabtree is Bethlehem's Executive Pastor and Lead Pastor for Life Training.
Don't Be Tongue-Tied
A pro-gay placard was recently held outside the Supreme Court building that said, “Jesus had two dads.” It was meant as a justification for homosexual relations, so-called gay marriage, and gay adoption.
Would you ready to respond to that taunt from a pro-gay activist?
Pastor Sam Crabtree is Bethlehem's Executive Pastor and Lead Pastor for Life Training.
John Piper Thanksgiving Celebration: Opening Remarks from Pastor Tom Steller
Julie was 19, I was 22, when "Dr. Piper" thrilled our hearts and agreed to preach at our wedding on June 15, 1977. His text was John 16:33. He focused his words and our thoughts on what he called "a tremendous trilogy of propositions."
Pray for Pastors and Wives
Bethlehem’s pastors and wives will be away for a couple days at an annual retreat at Ironwood Springs where this year they will dive into the subject of marriage and break into discussion groups with pertinent questions prepared on the subject.
It won’t be all work and no play. There will be times for personal reflection, some combined recreation, some Brad Nelson crowd-breaking mixers, and informal meals in the dining hall.
Ask God to increase, deepen, and sweeten our marital love, and our love for each other as staff couples.
Pastor Sam Crabtree is Bethlehem's Executive Pastor and Lead Pastor for Life Training.
Life Together in the Firestorm
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Download AudioThen Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times.
What Stuart Scott Said at the Marriage Retreat
Stuart Scott recently spoke at the Bethlehem Marriage Retreat, and here are 10 excerpts captured by Scott Jamison.
Pastor Sam Crabtree is Bethlehem's Executive Pastor and Lead Pastor for Life Training.

